Relations

"“Relationships are like Birds,

 If you hold Tightly they Die,

 If you hold Loosely they Fly,

 But, if you hold with care, they remain with you Forever”

~ Unknown Author

What are relations?
Relations are bonds that make us, develop us, guide us, break us and much more... We are surrounded by multiple relations some are true some are fake but we can't distinguish easily. So it's better to cherish whatever we have. We can either nurture relations and let them bloom like flowers or we can kill and bury them in our ignorance it purely depends on us. Best are those relations where both ends keep trying and don't give up...

"Having somewhere to go is home,

 Having someone you love is family,

 Having both is a blessing"

~ Unknown Author 

Do relation effect us?
Relations effect us deeply. In fact we are nothing without our relations. Relations gives us courage, hope, enthusiasm, many more also sometimes resentment, irritation, bitterness, so on... But this is all part and parcel of life and it adds spice to our life. When I say relation it doesn't mean relation with humans only it's relation to entire humanity, to the world we are in. Our everyday life involves a big contribution of our relation with nature, with people around and with our thoughts. In this blog I'm focusing on human relations.

"Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule, 

but love people who never look at their schedule when you need them"

~ Unknown Author

Do we need to guard relation?
A beautiful relation always gives you positive energy to fight back with the problems and without our knowledge they keep supporting us. Sometimes we feel it's over due time or any other factor but they suddenly support us when the whole world turns away. Such relations should never be left out. They are our backbone.We need to understand that Relations are some times fragile whereas sometimes they are robust. Sometimes we need to give them space and time to develop and sometimes we need to hold it tight to secure it. Sometime they need care and compassion whereas sometimes they need sternness and harshness. Actually it's a huge topic to be discussed... but keep in mind everything that is related to us needs to be monitored or it withers eventually with time.

"Distance doesn't ruin a relationship,

DOUBTS do"

~ Unknown Author

 Should we hold onto it or let it go?
Should we cling to a relation even if we think its already over or when can we say it's over and out now. Some people say relations have life span but I believe it between two people how they support it to grow, it can't nourish from one side. And the main culprit to destroy a boosting healthy relation is Doubt, along with it there are many other culprits too. Once we start doubting any relation, how much ever effort, nourishment you give the seeds of doubts will hollow it up. In some case even after giving your all dedication, time, effort you don't find any development then understand it's time you need to give space if it's worth it will come back to you... A relation that just keeps demanding might not be worth clinging too. 

To end up I feel the most valued relations are found during the hardest times of your life...

"A Great Relationship is about two things,

first, Find out the Similarities,

second, Respect the Difference"

~ Unknown Author 

Hope

"Once you choose HOPE anything's POSSIBLE"

~ Christopher Reeve

Today I will begin without questions...

We all being humans are bound to have problems, no one on this earth can say that they are free of any sort of problems. It just differs in the way how we accept it, by complaining or having Hope. HOPE is the abbreviation of "Hold On Pain Ends"  by an Anonymous Author. I use this vocabulary frequently... and to be honest it boosts me up many times to fight back. I agree that it can't be effective every time, but even the light of a dim candle enlightens a dark room. That's what hope is according to me. Ability to see through your problems.

"BE STRONG, because things will get better.

It may be stormy now, but it never RAINS FOREVER."

~ Unknown Author 

It's just 4 letter word with multiples of emotions and it has ability to develop yourself in numerous ways like: 

• Faith for better tomorrow
• Patience for problems to end
• Strength to climb mountains of troubles
• See through darkness and find stars
• Face your fears
• Dreams to become reality
• Overcome unexpected obstacles
• Confidence that you can do it and so many more

Hope doesn't means to sit still and wait for problems to end or opportunity to knock your door. Hope means to keep working, keep struggling, keep trying again and again till you succeed. Best example around us is our Parents, our Elders even we can observe this in animals like spiders, birds, even after facing numerous challenges they construct their house and even after its demolishing they don't sit and give up instead they start working on it again.

In the end, it comes down to me that always,

Hope for Best

and be

Ready for Worst... 

If you always remember this, it wont' solve your problems but it will make your life easy and give you confidence to fight back.

"FAITH makes all things POSSIBLE,

LOVE makes all things EASY,

HOPE makes all things WORK."

~ Unknown Author 

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Nature Our Best Guide

Is nature important to us?
Did you ever wonder what Nature is trying to teach us?
Can we pause our works for a minute to think what we have done for Nature?

"Look deep into the nature,

And then you will understand everything better"

~Albert Einstein

Everyone is busy with their life, their problems and all worldly affairs. But did we ever ponder about natures role in our lives, is Nature really of any importance to us? In fact the reality is that our day starts with nature and ends with nature and the whole day long we are around nature and it's blessings. But we rarely appreciate it for all support it has been providing us continuously without break. Now the next question how are we around nature? We encounter nature in different ways like bright morning light or the coolness of night, breeze of sea or warmth of wind, sweet melody of birds chirping or innocence of flowers and similarly multiple ways. These are few blessings we keep receive free of cost that's the reason we don't value them. Can we imagine a day without nature around us? Impossible, isn't it. So just try to pause and appreciate Nature.

"Nature teaches us Simplicity and Contentment, 

because in it's presence we realize we need very little to be Happy"

~Mark Coleman

Nature is always standing erect, tall and firm for years and years... Nature is trying to teach us continuously, but in our ignorance we don't even notice. The most basic lesson it gives us is to keep moving, every next day is a new beginning that should be our thought instead of grieving at past. Have you noticed river flowing it doesn't reverses itself instead keeps moving forward to reach to its goal, and to reach their it takes turns, bends, even splits itself on hitting hurdles but never gives up. That's the simplest lesson river can give us, Past can't be changed but future can be so stop worrying about past think, work to improve future. Next observe a tree, in a year it experiences multiple changes from being covered in green to being leafless. But still it stands there firm accepting all changes because it believes that best days are about to come. Also the whole year around it gives selflessly in the form of shade, fruits, twigs , holding soil for our safety, coolness and so on. We need to learn how to be selfless and always have hope for best to happen. Similarly each and every part of nature gives us some hints on how to live. Think of other natural phenomena that guides us. We don't need big things to happen to be happy in our lives, try finding happiness in small things. Relieve yourself from all anxieties there is Creator of all things to help us out. 

"We make a Living by what we Get 

but we make a Life by what we Give"

~Winston Churchill 

Last question to be wondered about...
Can we pause our works for a minute to think what we have done for Nature?
Nature keeps giving us continuously without fail and in return what does she receives? Only our blames, curses and even threats to its existence. How many times have we thanked our Nature for all support it has been providing us? How many times did we try to protect our Nature? HOW MANY TIMES??? I don't expect anyone to build up a forest or construct wildlife sanctuary. If each one of us do our little part Nature will be at peace. Little things of any type thing like planting a plant, less use of paper, feeding people and animals in need, avoiding wastage of any sort, etc can have large impact. If anything is not possible a heart felt gratitude is also sufficient, it's never required to show case what you are doing or feeling. In the end it's you and your feelings regardless of others comments and suggestions. Learn from Nature how it faces everyone with smile even when it's getting blamed for no reason.

In the end, I believe Nature teaches us many things but the once I like most is,

TO LIVE SELFLESSLY & KEEP MOVING AHEAD 

as there is always sunshine after every dark night...

"Nothing in the Nature lives for Itself,

Rivers don't drink their own Water,

Trees don't eat their own Fruit,

The Sun doesn't shine for Itself,

A Flower's fragrance is not for Itself.

LIVING FOR EACH OTHER IS THE RULE OF NATURE"

~Anonymous