Happiness

What is happiness?
Who are Happy people? 
Are we Happy? 
Let's Explore...

"Everyone wants Happiness,

No one wants Pain.

But you can't have a Rainbow,

Without a little Rain."

Anonymous

I'm not an expert, just a normal human who is trying to just express her views. So let's begin...
According to me happiness is just feeling where you feel you are King / Queen of this Universe. Happiness can't be measured it can only be felt.  Happiness can't be categorized into types, it can be of any sort. When unknowingly your heart smiles that is happiness. When you meet an old friend unexpectedly that's happiness.And to be said precisely it is experienced little more when it's long awaited. If every second things makes you happy and you have few/ no tensions then these happiness are worthy but we might not feel it totally. But if we receive happiness attained after long desire and awaiting then it is precious. When you receive the fruit of your patience that is happiness.

Now the second question: Who are Happy people?

"Satisfaction of one's curiosity is one of the greatest sources of happiness in life."

By Linus Pauling

People who are satisfied irrespective of age, cast, culture, nationality, etc are most happy people. How are they most happy people? It's very simple to understand, if I have everything yet I'm not satisfied I will always be longing for something or other. Whereas even if I have little but I'm satisfied with what I blessed I will be surely grateful for everything what I have. "Happiness is Enjoying little things in Life" by Unknown Author. I don't mean to say we should't desire anything, of course we should or we won't progress but there should be desires but with satisfaction of what we have. Satisfied are those who believe Almighty decides best for them and what they received is infact best.

Now the most important question: Are we Happy?

"If you want happiness then start Giving,

Because the happiest people in life are Givers, not receivers."

By Unknown Author 

This is a question we need to ask ourselves. Or are we just fooling ourselves that we are happy and we don't have any worries. Don't fool yourself, Face it and try to be really happy. Happiness can be achieved in various ways depending on us. As far as I'm concerned I believe happiness is Real and Meaningful when Given. Have you ever tried helping someone in sorrow or stress or helping an orphan or have you tried forgiving and clearing your heart or ignoring mistakes or just a simple smile. There are several ways, if you have done any of these type of stuff then the happiness you have received is the Real one. Try it if you didn't experience it still. It's never too late for any good experience. Of course there are other type of happiness also like if I pass an exam or I successfully bake a cake they are also real one but the level is a bit lower than the Happiness received in Giving.

Last not the least:
Help others you won't lose anything but there are mountains that can be gained. Have faith in Almighty, HE is there to lead our life to success which in turn is happiness.

"If you want happiness for an hour, 

TAKE A NAP. 

If you want happiness for a day, 

GO FISHING.

If you want happiness for a year, 

INHERIT A FORTUNE.

If you want happiness for a lifetime, 

HELP SOMEONE ELSE."

Chinese Proverb

Women

Who is women?
What is her role?
What is her worth?
Let's begin the talk...

"A woman is not a Commodity or a toy for Amusement,

but a Real partner to a Man.

She has Right of her own 

and deserves the utmost Respect"

By Unknown Author

Women is just female human being deprived of her rights to be called Human. I'm Women and proud to be one. If we compare present condition of woman, there is absolutely much change. But still there is lots of progress still to be made. We say both men and women are equal but do we actually mean that? I'm not talking about physical strength but the social equality. Any how it's a vast topic to be discussed I'm trying to discuss in brief. She becomes happy with small things and stress out for nothing. She goes crazy on the word shopping. She has ability to create as well as resolve problems. She is a Unique organism send which is yet to be fully discovered. 😉

Now the next question: What is her role?

"When you educate a Man you educate an Individual,

when you educate a Women you educate a Generation."

By Unknown Author 

According to me there is No role that women can't play. To begin with she is a daughter, sister, friend, wife, daughter in law, sister in law, mother, mother in law, grandmother and along with all these she has dynamic professional character too. She plays each part with all her ability and capability. She is the link between two families. She takes the burden to maintain dignity of people related to her. When she is in her professional role she is enthusiastic, dedicated, innovative and doesn't merge it with her personal life. Women are in fact the role model of society. As Mother Teresa says: "Not all of us can do Great things, but we can do Small things with great Love"
this is exactly what a women does. She is on 24/7 hour work but many don't receive the kindness, peace of mind, appreciation and support that they deserve.

Last question of this segment: What is her worth?

"Women hold up half the Sky"

Chinese Proverb 

Worth of woman can't be measured. She is a priceless treasure. But she doesn't receives what she deserves. She is blamed, cursed, abused, beaten for faults that she has never done. She is not given chance to clarify facts that she has not done. She accepts everything with smile and builds courage to face it, she is not so strong but she hides her fears and acts boldly. Some people feel if they are blessed with daughters its shame for them, it's burden to their family. To such people with frivolous thinking I want to say "She is not shame but the pride of society. Respect her, appreciate her then you will see how she blooms and spreads her fragrance."

Last but not least:
This is my message to all woman around

"Until you spread your wings you will have no idea how far you can fly"

By Unknown Author 

My Existence

Who am I?

What is the purpose of my stay in this World?
Am I a Crop or Weed?
Did anyone ever ponder over such questions? 

"I am not what Happened to Me,

I am what I Choose to Become."

By Carl Gustav Jung

I'm what the situations turn me into and mostly what I decide to be. My situations, my upbringing might be different from others which plays a major role I agree but in the end it's Me who decides what I want to be. Many people comment if I were in that situation I would do this or that, but according to me we can never judge others by just superficially viewing their conditions. What is their mental state and physical ability no one knows. And most importantly we are not here to judge others, we are here to play our role not to disturb others role. I am Unique, I am Special, I am Talented, I am what I believe not what others think.

Now the next question, What is the purpose of my stay in this World?

" Life without a Purpose is like body without Soul"

By Unknown author

Sometimes when we are surrounded by problems we think what's the use of such life, why was I born. But despite of all troubles we face we all have a purpose to stay here. Or in simple words troubles are not actually problem but they are hidden blessings, yes I mean to say Blessings. Just think of any problem you have faced and the effect it had on you. Problems are just a means to polish you to be a better human. Troubles are the life time experience we attain. And as first question it's absolutely yourself who decides how enact in our problems which defines our purpose of stay. Don't make your problems an excuse for your wrong decisions because there are people with bigger problems yet they make better decisions. So decide your Stay and take a step. It's never too Late to improve yourself. You can do for sure. Believe in yourself.

Lastly the last question and the most important one: Am I a Crop or Weed?

" Life is one time Offer,

Use it Well"

By Unknown author

The words crop and weed are used just as synonym to what we are. As we all are already familiar crops are the useful whereas weeds are harmful. What about the appearance of both? Crops are beautiful but Weeds overtake the beauty of crops and often we don't feel to throw them even though we know they are harmful. Same goes with us also, Who are we ? Do we just appear to be good on outer end and internally pollute the relations and trust which people put on us. Or we are crops whose external packaging might be not attractive but internally we try with all our might to help, guide, protect people around us. Think, Ponder, Worry over these facts of reality because these are hard facts which decides WHO WE ARE? Remember in this world if you Give affection without any Expectations you will receive in Huge amount back. Do your part well (not to get appraisal from any living beings) and rest leave to to Almighty, you will never ever Regret your decision. 

Last but not the least:

"I AM STRONG 

because I know my Weaknesses 

I AM BEAUTIFUL 

because I am aware of my Flaws

I AM FEARLESS 

because I learn to recognize illusions from Real

I AM  WISE 

because I learn from my Mistakes

I AM A LOVER

because I have felt Hate

and 

I CAN LAUGH

because I have known Sadness"

By Unknown author

Life

"Life is a question and how we live it is our answer."

By Gary Keller

What is Life?

Appears like a simple question but the question that follows aren't simple.

Has this question ever brainstormed us?

Did we ever pause to think about who we are, what's is our role and what impact we have on others?

Are we significant to anyone around us?

To be honest even I don't have answer for these questions...

But if i have to express my views it might be... 

Life is challenge that each one of us faces, it's a struggle that we start from time we step in this world till the time we exit. No matter what type, standard or lifestyle you follow you have to face these challenges. It can mental, physical, social, spiritual, emotional or many more... And it's ultimately us who has to face it so we need to decide whether we face it boldly or cowardly as we need to face it and we can't find a substitute for that purpose.

Everyone in their lifetime faces ups and downs. Nobody's life is static with no worries and tensions. Actually if you think deeply these tensions are spices of life without them life would be tasteless. Just imagine if you have only happiness in your life there would be a time when happiness will lose it features and any good news doesn't excite you. Same is the case with worries also if everyday is same one more problem won't affect you. We may feel both if they occur suddenly without any expectations. Good days are to give Happiness but bad days give Experience.

Now the next question Who we are, what's is our role and what impact we have on others? 

As Shakespeare says: "All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players: they have their exits and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages." This quote itself guides us to who we are and what's our role? But how do impact others... If due to our existence any one person is guided or pulled out of their sorrows or had hearty laugh then our life is spend worthwhile. We can't make entire world happy but there should be a set or atleast a single person who might be waiting for us in their moment of happiness and sorrows. 

And the last question about significance, our significance depends purely on us. How much positive impact did our life live on others determines our significance. As the previous para describes did we touch anyone's heart with sincerity and purity of thoughts and firm determination to guide them or console them. Consoling a broken heart also serves the purpose of LIFE.

Last not the least, always remember

"Difficult roads often leads to beautiful destination" 

By Zig Ziglar