Sunday, September 22, 2019

Happiness

What is happiness?
Who are Happy people? 
Are we Happy? 
Let's Explore...

"Everyone wants Happiness,
No one wants Pain.
But you can't have a Rainbow,
Without a little Rain."
Anonymous
I'm not an expert, just a normal human who is trying to just express her views. So let's begin...
According to me happiness is just feeling where you feel you are King / Queen of this Universe. Happiness can't be measured it can only be felt.  Happiness can't be categorized into types, it can be of any sort. When unknowingly your heart smiles that is happiness. When you meet an old friend unexpectedly that's happiness.And to be said precisely it is experienced little more when it's long awaited. If every second things makes you happy and you have few/ no tensions then these happiness are worthy but we might not feel it totally. But if we receive happiness attained after long desire and awaiting then it is precious. When you receive the fruit of your patience that is happiness.

Now the second question: Who are Happy people?
"Satisfaction of one's curiosity is one of the greatest sources of happiness in life."
By Linus Pauling
People who are satisfied irrespective of age, cast, culture, nationality, etc are most happy people. How are they most happy people? It's very simple to understand, if I have everything yet I'm not satisfied I will always be longing for something or other. Whereas even if I have little but I'm satisfied with what I blessed I will be surely grateful for everything what I have. "Happiness is Enjoying little things in Life" by Unknown Author. I don't mean to say we should't desire anything, of course we should or we won't progress but there should be desires but with satisfaction of what we have. Satisfied are those who believe Almighty decides best for them and what they received is infact best.

Now the most important question: Are we Happy?
"If you want happiness then start Giving,
Because the happiest people in life are Givers, not receivers."
By Unknown Author 
This is a question we need to ask ourselves. Or are we just fooling ourselves that we are happy and we don't have any worries. Don't fool yourself, Face it and try to be really happy. Happiness can be achieved in various ways depending on us. As far as I'm concerned I believe happiness is Real and Meaningful when Given. Have you ever tried helping someone in sorrow or stress or helping an orphan or have you tried forgiving and clearing your heart or ignoring mistakes or just a simple smile. There are several ways, if you have done any of these type of stuff then the happiness you have received is the Real one. Try it if you didn't experience it still. It's never too late for any good experience. Of course there are other type of happiness also like if I pass an exam or I successfully bake a cake they are also real one but the level is a bit lower than the Happiness received in Giving.

Last not the least:
Help others you won't lose anything but there are mountains that can be gained. Have faith in Almighty, HE is there to lead our life to success which in turn is happiness.
"If you want happiness for an hour, 

TAKE A NAP. 
If you want happiness for a day, 

GO FISHING.
If you want happiness for a year, 
INHERIT A FORTUNE.
If you want happiness for a lifetime, 
HELP SOMEONE ELSE."
Chinese Proverb

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