Questions that are pondered in this blog:
What are problems?
Are problems a blessing or a curse?
How to compromise with our inner-self?
" Happiness is not the absence of Problems,
But the Ability to Deal with them."~ Anonymous Writer
Problem is a situation that can be regarded as uninformed, unwanted or harmful and which is needed to be dealt with or overcome. "Most of the problems in life are because of two reasons: we act without thinking or we keep thinking without acting" by an anonymous writer. Many times problems are not as big as we make them by just thinking about it. It's just a roller coaster in the journey called Life. It's just about deciphering the problem and taking a right turn at the right moment.
" Don't think too much of the Problems in life,they are just Test Papers given by Godto see how much we've learned inHIS subject called LIFE.If you think you failed,Review it through Prayers."~ Anonymous Writer
Next, the biggest problem is to make a decision about whether our problems are our blessings or curse on us. Normally when we encounter a problem we just think about its negative aspect and totally ignore how beneficial it could be for us. Problems are actually a means of self-realization and self-improvement. While doing so we encounter our real selves, our positives also we can face our major loopholes. "Limits are a Secret Blessings, and Bounty can be Curse" by Twyla Tharp. Actually, sometimes blessings might include hidden curse in them, by this I could remember the ancient Greek story of the deceptive Trojan Horse that eventually let to the fall of the city of Troy. So it's up to us as to how we treat our blessings or curse, as a challenge to overcome it our as a burden to drag it. both of these are part and parcel of life without anyone we lose the importance of our Life. Remember both blessings and curse are God's way to test us, our actions and our reactions to it. According to me, all problems are blessings in disguise we just need to demonstrate patience to achieve our blessings or we might end up with a curse.
" The Problem is not the Problem,the Problem is your attitude about the Problem.Do you understand?"~ Jack Sparrow
Now the next major concern that arises is how to create an understanding with our own selves. It's very easy to console others and advise them but the problem arises when we, ourselves need to follow that advice. I know it can be really hard to console our own selves, but it's not completely impossible. "There are 3 solutions to every problem: Accept it, Change it, Leave it. If you can't accept it then change it if you can't change it then leave it" by Anonymous Writer. Life is a journey with problems to solve and lessons to learn but most of all experience to enjoy. If you feel you are experiencing many problems and your life is ruined in solving them then you need to remember you have many more times blessings that you are experiencing. When we don't question receiving blessings then why do we question our problems? Life means improving your Problem Solving ability. There are 2 types of problems: one that can be solver another that can't be solved. If it can be solved then why to worry just solve it and if can't be then why to bother your precious life behind it just let it be.
In the end, I would like to add don't try to avoid your problems, take the courage to face it you will end up with blessings there is no place for curse in our lives unless and until we guide it to us...
"Problems are like Washing Machines,they Twist, they Spin & Knock us around,but in the End, we come out Cleaner, Brighter & Better than before."~ Anonymous Writer