Relations

"“Relationships are like Birds,

 If you hold Tightly they Die,

 If you hold Loosely they Fly,

 But, if you hold with care, they remain with you Forever”

~ Unknown Author

What are relations?
Relations are bonds that make us, develop us, guide us, break us and much more... We are surrounded by multiple relations some are true some are fake but we can't distinguish easily. So it's better to cherish whatever we have. We can either nurture relations and let them bloom like flowers or we can kill and bury them in our ignorance it purely depends on us. Best are those relations where both ends keep trying and don't give up...

"Having somewhere to go is home,

 Having someone you love is family,

 Having both is a blessing"

~ Unknown Author 

Do relation effect us?
Relations effect us deeply. In fact we are nothing without our relations. Relations gives us courage, hope, enthusiasm, many more also sometimes resentment, irritation, bitterness, so on... But this is all part and parcel of life and it adds spice to our life. When I say relation it doesn't mean relation with humans only it's relation to entire humanity, to the world we are in. Our everyday life involves a big contribution of our relation with nature, with people around and with our thoughts. In this blog I'm focusing on human relations.

"Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule, 

but love people who never look at their schedule when you need them"

~ Unknown Author

Do we need to guard relation?
A beautiful relation always gives you positive energy to fight back with the problems and without our knowledge they keep supporting us. Sometimes we feel it's over due time or any other factor but they suddenly support us when the whole world turns away. Such relations should never be left out. They are our backbone.We need to understand that Relations are some times fragile whereas sometimes they are robust. Sometimes we need to give them space and time to develop and sometimes we need to hold it tight to secure it. Sometime they need care and compassion whereas sometimes they need sternness and harshness. Actually it's a huge topic to be discussed... but keep in mind everything that is related to us needs to be monitored or it withers eventually with time.

"Distance doesn't ruin a relationship,

DOUBTS do"

~ Unknown Author

 Should we hold onto it or let it go?
Should we cling to a relation even if we think its already over or when can we say it's over and out now. Some people say relations have life span but I believe it between two people how they support it to grow, it can't nourish from one side. And the main culprit to destroy a boosting healthy relation is Doubt, along with it there are many other culprits too. Once we start doubting any relation, how much ever effort, nourishment you give the seeds of doubts will hollow it up. In some case even after giving your all dedication, time, effort you don't find any development then understand it's time you need to give space if it's worth it will come back to you... A relation that just keeps demanding might not be worth clinging too. 

To end up I feel the most valued relations are found during the hardest times of your life...

"A Great Relationship is about two things,

first, Find out the Similarities,

second, Respect the Difference"

~ Unknown Author