My Existence

Who am I?

What is the purpose of my stay in this World?
Am I a Crop or Weed?
Did anyone ever ponder over such questions? 

"I am not what Happened to Me,

I am what I Choose to Become."

By Carl Gustav Jung

I'm what the situations turn me into and mostly what I decide to be. My situations, my upbringing might be different from others which plays a major role I agree but in the end it's Me who decides what I want to be. Many people comment if I were in that situation I would do this or that, but according to me we can never judge others by just superficially viewing their conditions. What is their mental state and physical ability no one knows. And most importantly we are not here to judge others, we are here to play our role not to disturb others role. I am Unique, I am Special, I am Talented, I am what I believe not what others think.

Now the next question, What is the purpose of my stay in this World?

" Life without a Purpose is like body without Soul"

By Unknown author

Sometimes when we are surrounded by problems we think what's the use of such life, why was I born. But despite of all troubles we face we all have a purpose to stay here. Or in simple words troubles are not actually problem but they are hidden blessings, yes I mean to say Blessings. Just think of any problem you have faced and the effect it had on you. Problems are just a means to polish you to be a better human. Troubles are the life time experience we attain. And as first question it's absolutely yourself who decides how enact in our problems which defines our purpose of stay. Don't make your problems an excuse for your wrong decisions because there are people with bigger problems yet they make better decisions. So decide your Stay and take a step. It's never too Late to improve yourself. You can do for sure. Believe in yourself.

Lastly the last question and the most important one: Am I a Crop or Weed?

" Life is one time Offer,

Use it Well"

By Unknown author

The words crop and weed are used just as synonym to what we are. As we all are already familiar crops are the useful whereas weeds are harmful. What about the appearance of both? Crops are beautiful but Weeds overtake the beauty of crops and often we don't feel to throw them even though we know they are harmful. Same goes with us also, Who are we ? Do we just appear to be good on outer end and internally pollute the relations and trust which people put on us. Or we are crops whose external packaging might be not attractive but internally we try with all our might to help, guide, protect people around us. Think, Ponder, Worry over these facts of reality because these are hard facts which decides WHO WE ARE? Remember in this world if you Give affection without any Expectations you will receive in Huge amount back. Do your part well (not to get appraisal from any living beings) and rest leave to to Almighty, you will never ever Regret your decision. 

Last but not the least:

"I AM STRONG 

because I know my Weaknesses 

I AM BEAUTIFUL 

because I am aware of my Flaws

I AM FEARLESS 

because I learn to recognize illusions from Real

I AM  WISE 

because I learn from my Mistakes

I AM A LOVER

because I have felt Hate

and 

I CAN LAUGH

because I have known Sadness"

By Unknown author

Life

"Life is a question and how we live it is our answer."

By Gary Keller

What is Life?

Appears like a simple question but the question that follows aren't simple.

Has this question ever brainstormed us?

Did we ever pause to think about who we are, what's is our role and what impact we have on others?

Are we significant to anyone around us?

To be honest even I don't have answer for these questions...

But if i have to express my views it might be... 

Life is challenge that each one of us faces, it's a struggle that we start from time we step in this world till the time we exit. No matter what type, standard or lifestyle you follow you have to face these challenges. It can mental, physical, social, spiritual, emotional or many more... And it's ultimately us who has to face it so we need to decide whether we face it boldly or cowardly as we need to face it and we can't find a substitute for that purpose.

Everyone in their lifetime faces ups and downs. Nobody's life is static with no worries and tensions. Actually if you think deeply these tensions are spices of life without them life would be tasteless. Just imagine if you have only happiness in your life there would be a time when happiness will lose it features and any good news doesn't excite you. Same is the case with worries also if everyday is same one more problem won't affect you. We may feel both if they occur suddenly without any expectations. Good days are to give Happiness but bad days give Experience.

Now the next question Who we are, what's is our role and what impact we have on others? 

As Shakespeare says: "All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players: they have their exits and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages." This quote itself guides us to who we are and what's our role? But how do impact others... If due to our existence any one person is guided or pulled out of their sorrows or had hearty laugh then our life is spend worthwhile. We can't make entire world happy but there should be a set or atleast a single person who might be waiting for us in their moment of happiness and sorrows. 

And the last question about significance, our significance depends purely on us. How much positive impact did our life live on others determines our significance. As the previous para describes did we touch anyone's heart with sincerity and purity of thoughts and firm determination to guide them or console them. Consoling a broken heart also serves the purpose of LIFE.

Last not the least, always remember

"Difficult roads often leads to beautiful destination" 

By Zig Ziglar